Bros not really been doing very well since his chemo last friday. he finds it difficult to sit down because of the soreness after his operation. He has not sleeping very well at the moment. it is only the last two weeks that he has seemed really depressed and cannot raise a smile which is not like him. His mouth has all ulcerated and he is having difficulty in eating, and with him having very little appetite at the moment he is losing weight quite dramatically .
I am hoping that his spirits are lifted this weekend because his lovely girlfriend Sarah is coming up from the midlands for the weekend. She is such a positive person and she practices various relaxation techniques. i am sure this will help bro through his depression.
I cant wait to have the happy smiling bro back that i love to laugh with.

BROS BEEN BACK TO CHRISTIES TODAY FOR THE RESULTS OF HIS SCAN. HE IS SUFFERING A LOT AT THE MOMENT. HE HAS LOST OVER 3 STONE IN LITTLE MORE THAN 6 WEEKS AND HE DOES NOT LOOK WELL AT ALL. HE IS NOT EATING AND HAS LITTLE OR NO ENERGY AT ALL. ANYHOW THE SCAN SHOWED THE TUMOURS ON HIS LIVER HAVE GROWN SIGNIFICANTLY AND THAT IS THE REASON HE IS SO ILL...CHEMOTHERAPY TO START TOMORROW AND MORE IN TWO WEEKS AND IF NO IMPROVEMENT IS SEEN THEN NOTHING ELSE CAN BE DONE. WORRYING TIMES FOR US ALL, BUT WE ARE A STRONG FAMILY AND MY BRO HAS THE MOST AMAZING GROUP OF FRIENDS THAT YOU COULD IMAGINE, IF IT WAS NOT FOR HIS KIDS, HIS FAMILY AND HIS FRIENDS THE BATTLE WOULD HAVE BEEN OVER A LONG TIME AGO. HIS KIDS AND THEIR MUM ADELE WENT TO THE HOSPITAL TODAY WITH HIM, AND WITH THEM WITH HIM HE WILL KEEP BATTLING. ITS SAD TO SEE BRO SO THIN AND GAUNT BUT WE WILL GET HIM BACK TO HIS OLD SELF. WE ALL LOVE YOU BRO.XX

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Chemo Charlie update.

Well it has been a bit since I posted an update on that bro of mine and things have changed so fast over the last few weeks, bro has gone from being totally dependent on facebook to not visiting it at all, as most of you will have noticed. This is because 3 weeks ago his fingers were so fat that they kept hitting more than one kjey  asnd hgis sdatusdes wqere resally doifficultr tpo rtead, and his B and his N being together was causing him nigger and nigger problems withj eachj sdatus upodate. Anyhow he started to work out daily at the gym and he was losing half a pound a day....because his sausage fingers couldn’t get the 50p back out of the locker. He also did do a marathon in 4 hours, he would have done it in a fraction of the time if his fat fingers could have got the wrapper off. Well in a desperate frame of mind ( and  i do blame myself for his mental distress somewhat by keep calling him a fat fooker) he spoke to his consultant Mr Mustapha Lukatfatti to ask for a solution to his dilemma. He suggested a gastric band, well more like a fan belt of a 747 to be honest. Bro had it fitted 3 weeks ago and he is a changed man. His confidence has returned and he has joined a dating agency Skinny Date.com. His first date was the other night with a redheaded girl the name of Anna Rexik,  the  dating agency rung to ask if she was a match?? She certainly looked like one !! I met her at bros briefly and when I was going I said “cheerio” and she said No Thanks i have already eaten. Bro is going down the same path and has not eaten for 3 weeks,  I threw my arms around him before I left and punched myself in both  kidneys. Mums getting stressed about his weight loss and says he cannot tell his arse from his elbow at the minute. The neighbours have complained because they heard him and Anna Rexic having sex last night and said it sounded like a skeleton having a wank in an empty biscuit tin. Not to mention the fact that they might start a fire. I tried to sit them down to try to talk some sense into them both but I felt I was clutching at straws. Anyhow he said he would chew it over. Over the weeks though I have been seeing less and less of him and I do agree with mum and i do  feel guilty that I am to blame for the condition he finds himself in. I have been to the doctors to try and get bro something and the doctor has given me this one big green pill and told me to tell bro to take it 4 times a day. Bros going on facebook and hopes he gets some feedback. Mr Mustapha has a colleague at Christies who deals in eating disorders a lady the name of Bingita,   but  bro couldn’t make the appointment because something came up. What with his bowel problems and his bulimia, it is a right pain in the arse, he is getting sick of it. I do miss that fat fooker of a bro of mine with his big fat belly and his three chins, i wish he would get back to his fat self......mum and sisters are saying it is all my fault he is in this condition which is why i haven’t done an update for so long........my biggest nightmare is that he may resort to something drastic and.....ask for his old clothes back that he gave me years ago when he ballooned....THIN T***.!!!!!

took Bro a gingerbread man to hospital to cheer him up.

Bro feeling a tad delicate after his operation but nurse teddy was tending to him. Love You Bro.xx

Bro with his friend Ann in hospital when he managed to get up for the first time.

Mum visiting bro in hospital after his operation

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